-->

Thursday, November 23, 2006

Eye Contact

Berapa banyak sih orang di dunia yg sempit ini klo ngobrol bener2 liat lawan bicara nya?
Berapa banyak sih orang yg klo ngobrol melakukan eye contact ama lawan bicara nya?
Coba d lo perhati'in (may be its including u), lo inget2 lg..
secara lo mgkn ga sadar, klo ngobrol ama temen gt..

klo gw perhati'in (ga pake riset yg njelimet tentu nya :p ) jarang banget ada orang ketika ngobrol mata nya juga ikutan b'ekspresi, yaaah.. datar-datar aja gt, ga expressif bgt ato malah kadang2 jelalatan kemana2..
nah paling BT tuh klo dah jelalatan kemana2, ga sopan!!!
padahal klo lagi ngobrol ama org yg expressif, mulai dr mata, cara bicara, intonasi sampe harus pake gerakan tangan, tuh seru bgt menurut gw..
s'olah2 ngrasa'in apa yg dialamin ma lawan bicara
tp balik lagi ke personal masing2 ya.., ga smua nya bisa nunjukin dgn cr spt itu

i found this guy.. who speaks through his eyes.. :p
anjr**t.. dah lama bgt ga nemu'in org ky gt
jadi seneng aja ngobrol ma dia
no heart feeling.. i dont even know him
friend of a friend..

it feels like being respected, when we have a conversation with eye contact
feel comfort, focus..
it could be with anybody, friends, parents, sister, brother even ur boss
menurut gw mata tuh jendela hati
apa yg ga bisa diwakilin dengan kata2, bisa kliatan lewat mata
make u more sensitive if u can read others eyes..